Picking a destination

This was super easy for me, if you are lost, heres what lead me to picking mines
1) Pick a place you both like a LOT (for me I dislike bali, Malaysia and Singapore)
2) Pick a place convenient (this actually was the major decision maker) – remember you have a lot of guests that will be coming and to make it easier for you, pick a place where theres at least 2 flights to the city per day in case anything happens. Traveling time is also an issue! Asia was the immediate choice for me.
3) Pick a place where there is will be good English speaking staff
4) Pick a place where weddings are like eating rice for them
5) Pick a place where the timezone is the same as the country you live

DECISION MADE: Phuket!

DONTS!

You can get a bit carried away with picking the perfect destination, like my dream wedding destination will be in Europe but its just not possible, just remember DO NOT pick a place based on your dream location unless you are willing to go to the ends of this earth for your wedding (this could be quitting your job to organize a wedding or seeing a psychologist to relieve stress)

Don’t argue over your wedding – a wedding is an happy event, it is stupid to argue over it, just discuss and compromise. There is no perfect destination or wedding honestly… theres so many limitations and road bumps ahead. If you don’t get this straight right at the beginning, then be ready to lose a marriage over it which has happened to a few couples I know.